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August 13th, 2007
Dear Alexis,
My boyfriend and I are great together! But he has a female cousin who is a year younger. When I'm around she’s all over him, touching him, FLIRTING with him. She always sits between us when we’re together. She says things like "if u died i would kill myself."
I completely trust my boyfriend, but I do not trust his cousin. Should I be worried that she likes him or am I paranoid!?
CP
Dear CP,
I don’t think you’re paranoid, I think you’re observant. It’s obvious she does have a little crush. I, too, had a crush on my very cute older cousin once, and then I turned seven and realized how creepy it was and it was over.
You totally trust your boyfriend and say that you are great together so don’t sweat it. Here’s the thing, if you have a great guy, other women are always going to want him; your friends, his co-workers, your auntie, his cousin (as disturbing as that is)… The alternative is dating a loser that nobody thinks is hot and you don’t want that, do you?
If your man is fine, you need to learn to relax because for as long as you are together, like flies on you-know-what, there will be women buzzing around. Trust him, be nice to the freaky cousin (it won’t do you any good to make an enemy out of his family), and continue to enjoy your man.
Who knows, maybe you can set her up with someone who has a different last name?
Good Luck!
Alexis Brown
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